6 Tips to Instantly Look and Feel more Graceful in Aerial Arts
- Sara | WakefulAscent

- Jan 10
- 5 min read

Most things in aerial arts take time, especially grace. However, there are actually many ways we can genuinely start to look and feel more graceful within one hour. The building blocks for grace are: Strength + Control Body awareness Pathway familiarity
Technique knowledge Sometimes there are gaps in aerial classes, especially when the curriculum is based on tricks themselves and not all the layers of movement.
Let’s just look at a few ideas that can make you feel and look more graceful right away.
Eliminate your swing
Unless you are intentionally incorporating pendulum movement into your act (which you should not be if you're focused on the basics of grace itself), strive to eliminate side-to-side movement in your apparatus. The side-to-side adds visual and sensory noise and unnecessarily challenging dynamics to your system.
When mounting your apparatus, you need to find out where your plumb line is based on what move you are doing. This means, where can you hang still - no swinging? Take time before every move to find this. This usually looks like gently weighting the apparatus, noticing if you swing, and then adjusting where your ground contact point is.
Essentially, you want to feel that your full weight on the apparatus is pulling it directly downward.
As you put your weight onto the apparatus, avoid doing so in a way that pushes the apparatus into a swing. Mount gently, intentionally.
Move slowly and intentionally
Moving slowly through pathways is one of the simplest and most effective ways to practice grace. I had a beautiful moment teaching a youth class once. They had really been rushing through everything, so I paused everyone for a moment and asked them to move as slow as a snail for the next segment. They listened and tried it, and they looked more graceful than I had ever seen.
Rushed movements are often the enemy of grace, not because speed is bad, but because rushing usually introduces noise, compensation, and poor coordination.
Myelination is the process by which neural pathways become faster and more reliable through repeated use. Signals can eventually travel over 250 mph in well-myelinated fibers. The nervous system doesn’t discriminate between “good” and “bad” technique; whatever you repeat gets reinforced.
Moving slowly through a pathway allows the brain to register timing, sequencing, and sensation with greater clarity. This is especially important when learning new skills or undoing old movement patterns that rely on rushing, brute force, or extra effort. With consistent, attentive repetition, these cleaner patterns become automatic, and then they can be expressed with speed and ease. Through an artistic lens, speed should be for expression or functional needs in specific skills, not something you do because you can't hang on any longer. One of the beautiful opportunities of aerial movement is to become present. See how much you can prolong a simple movement like a reach or a leg extension. Appreciate every breath, pose, and transition. The next pose is not more or less important than this pose.
Try lingering in your poses and transitions. We often feel like we are holding longer than we really are, and if you have an audience, they will really appreciate your pauses, especially if you have a spin. Some poses look like nothing from one angle and spectacular from another.
Of course, moving slowly in aerial is HARD. It often requires longer grip endurance and very good apparatus awareness (so you are not partially falling out of wraps or holds). If you strive for grace, keep up your conditioning!
Gentle spin
A gentle spin on the plumb line can instantly improve grace and it can even help you maintain a sense of continuity in your movements. Keep in mind that if you’re using silk or rope, a longer tail can interfere with your spin. You may need to pick it up to keep it off the floor.
When adding a spin to aerial silks, in most cases it's helpful to think of stirring a big cauldron slowly, rather than rapidly flailing the tail around. Sometimes the way your fabric is wrapped makes handling the tail quite difficult, and you don’t have room to make a big circle with your arm without hitting yourself or your other tail. In this case a tight rapid spin of the tail may be necessary. Take some time to explore your options and break down your spin a bit before trying to work it into a sequence.
Touch with intention
Think about how you reach for and touch your apparatus. Strive for the least amount of grip you need to be safe and strong, unless you are gripping hard as a form of expression.
If you’re reaching your hand to grab somewhere on your apparatus, try closing just one finger around at a time.
Think about how other body parts touch your apparatus or your own body as well. If you are grabbing your ankle for a split, how is that grab being executed? Is it rushed or strained? Try to meet your apparatus and body without extra energy.
Organizing Legs
Organizing legs is one of the most impactful but least intuitive parts of finding strong and beautiful aerial engagement. In general, we want our legs to always have a purposeful position. They are either doing a job (e.g., pushing the apparatus away or counterbalancing the body, creating a shape, etc.) or minimizing interference. A leg should generally be straight and engaged or purposefully bent at the knee if it does not have a job. When your legs do have a job, aim for complete movements. Extend your leg all the way to put on your footlock in the air, rather than both legs being slightly bent at all times.
Relax your face and breathe
If your movement is strained, your face definitely is too. Let your whole system find the right level of engagement, including your jaw, eyes, and neck.
Try slow pathways with attention to breath. It is not practical to always be monitoring breathing in aerial work, but periodic training of this helps us avoid tightening up in the lungs.
Bonus Tip: Warmup = Technical Time
One of the most strategic ways to improve body awareness and technique is actually to work on it on the ground. I like to think of warmup as the "perfectionist time" since the brain has a lot of resources to devote to technique, rather than on getting wraps right/not falling. When I started treating my warmups like this, the improvements in the air came quickly.
The Simplified Version
If I could only suggest one thing, I would suggest slow movement with attention to detail. Take videos, review them, don't beat yourself up when they don't look how you want, and let it be led by curiosity. "That part looked sticky - what do I need for that to feel graceful? More strength? To slow down and better understand the pathway?"
Good luck and enjoy the process!





